Wikipedia, the on-line, often UNRELIABLE encyclopedia, defines Fibular Hemimelia as: "the congenital absence of the fibula and it is the most common congenital absence of long bone of the extremities." It is the shortening of the fibula at birth, or the complete lack thereof. In humans, the disorder can be noted by ultrasound in utero to prepare for amputation after birth or complex bone lengthening surgery. The amputation usually takes place at 6-months with removal of portions of the legs to retro fit them for prosthetic use. The other treatments which include repeated corrective osteotomies and leg-lengthening surgery are costly and associated with residual deformity."
First things first. My ultrasounds did not detect fibular hemimelia, nor do a lot of ultrasounds! I feel blessed that I did not receive such news via ultrasound and, instead, was able to enjoy the miracle of a beating heart and waving fingers. Had I known the diagnosis while pregnant and consulted on-line sources, I am sure that I would have traded a joyous pregnancy for a pregnancy filled with worry and fear. That said, if the condition is detected in utero, then you have time to prepare! New advances are being made each day in the orthopedics fields, and perhaps one day soon an amputation will never be listed as a "treatment"! Also, take heart --there are a varying degrees of severity with regard to FH. Ethan, for instance, has a mild form and amputation was never even mentioned at any doctor's appointment.
When I first started researching the condition, I found no pictures that looked anything like his level of severity; thus, most of the treatments mentioned on-line didn't apply to us at all. In case someone might need a picture that looks like their child, I am including pictures of Ethan's legs from day one in the hospital.
(Excuse the white, lacy gown --it's my husbands' family's "Coming Home" attire that every baby has worn home, beginning with my husband's big sister and ending with the family's latest addition --little Grady).
You have to admit --that little foot is sweet! I was, as I'm sure most moms would be, worried about what everyone would think. Would children make fun of him, adults gawk --would he be self-conscious? In all actuality, very few people even noticed. Some of those who did asked questions, some didn't. Little kids found his toes to be quite "awesome" -and big brother Josh enjoyed showing them off to his friends. No one in his six years has made fun of him because of his foot. Maybe those days are to come, but even so, what a chance to learn lessons about what's really important in life.
When looking at another child, Ethan (around age 2-3) asked, "Momma, does he have ten toes, or did God make him special like me?" Isn't that what it's all about -perspective!
The above pictures were taken around age one.
Don't you just want to kiss those little toes! I was so worried that he would not be able to walk --that the difference would make him wobbly or so out of balance that taking steps would be too much for him to handle. He certainly proved me wrong; he simply self-adjusted, sort of popping out his right leg to account for the discrepancy in the left --and he never missed a beat! His first steps were right on target at around eleven to twelve months.
These must have been around age 2 -- look at those banged up legs!
We were blessed to discover another little boy who shared our pediatrician who was also diagnosed with FH and had four toes on his left foot! Finally, a friend for Ethan with whom he could closely identify! Too bad the family moved cross country shortly after we met.
As you notice in the pictures, his leg lenth discrepancy has remained consistent since about nine months of age. As of today, he has a 5.2 centimeter difference (about 2 inches). This picture was taken just a few weeks before Ethan finally got a shoe lift. This was a particularly telling picture because he seems so out of alignment.
Because his condition is milder than some, he did not undergo any treatment these last six year, aside from yearly X-rays. I do believe, however, he would have benefited from a lift earlier -although he has never complained of back or hip pain. According to our first orthopedist -and seconded by the new orthopedist --long term effects of such a discrepancy would result in back/hip pain, knee deterioration, arthritis, etc. Children, though, as we all know, are resilient --and his little body simply adapted to the difference.
So, if your baby looks similar to mine, I hope these pictures bring you hope. He has more than enjoyed being a normal little boy --who just happens to have FH!
Here I am reading about your son and crying. My daughter was born with 4 toes 2 of which are webbed together. Her feet are much different in size and her legs when I measure them are 2 cm difference. She is 5 months old. I have been researching because her Dr. just has talked about the missing toe and how she has never seen that but not much beyond that. When I have been researching I found fibular hemimelia but the pictures were so extreme. But the pictures here seem like m babies and it scares me. Anyways, reading about your son and your outlook on it is helping me. My faith in God is the most important thing so reading your bible vs. and thoughts have been a blessing. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteHello my baby boy is 9 months old now he has the exact same feet as your son. he doesnt have FH though they said he does have his fibular bone his legs are pretty much the same size now, there was a big difference at first. he has managed to have the same size shoes which made me so happy. they said he has his big toe and little toe and he is missing his middle toe. They cant tell until he is older if he has any middle toe. Its nice to see pictures and to know someone understands he is doing so well with his walking now its not botherd him one bit. thank you for writing your blog. Hayley xx
ReplyDeleteI will be praying for your son, Hayley! It's always nice to find a parent with a child with similar issues!
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ReplyDeleteThe way you handle this situation is very respectfull . My last son has the same problem . He is born the 01/27/2013 . I would like to send you pictures of his left foot in order to have your tought on it cause we are very worried . Can you please give me your contact . this is my personal email : abdoulayediallo633@hotmail.com
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Thank you for your WONDERFUL blog and for sharing your son's story. My son is currently 6 ½ (almost 7!) months old and was diagnosed with a "mild" case of FH at 5 weeks of age by a pediatric orthopedic specialist at Gillette Children’s in MN. Being scared and completely unsure of what we were dealing with, the minute she said, “Your son will walk, run, and do everything little boys do” sent my husband and I into a crying spell. Now after reading his story, I’m confident what she said will happen; that it isn’t some far off goal but rather reality.
ReplyDeleteWe too, researched FH and only found scary images and more severe cases that didn’t seem to apply to him. Your photos are almost identical to what his legs/feet look like now. It’s heartwarming to see/read about a case that is, at least at this point, similar to our son’s. Would you be willing to share how you came to his current doctor? Being so early in our journey I want to make sure we’re making the most educated choices for him and hearing perhaps, some of your advice on questions to ask would be helpful. Please let me if you’d be able to email me or if I could email you directly to go over a bit of what we’re thinking.
Thank you again for sharing your amazing story.
Melissa, I would love to email you or you can feel free to email me ANY questions that you have! I am by far no expert, but will share from my head and my heart any information that I can! My email address: sifields517@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteThank you so very much! Expect one from me soon :) Appreciate it!
ReplyDeleteJust read about Ethan. I was born Feb 29 1964 with the same thing as Ethan. Would be glad to give you some insight about my experiences. If you would like to email me it is dcardwell@suddenlink.net.
ReplyDeletemy son has FH also he now 8 yrs old we chose to amputate at 7 months he got his prosthetic at 9 months took off walking with it as soon as they put it on.He walks great we are on our 10th leg now.Can't tell he even has one unless he has shorts on.Was the best decision for us and my son.Good luck to all and you have to what right for your child as they are all different yet the same which is special to us as parents
ReplyDeleteYou are certainly right --all children with FH are certainly different! I'm so glad that your son is doing well!
ReplyDeleteThank you...glad you son is also doing great!!!!Could you keep up dating very interested in his length difference as he grows. My son has valgus on his little leg.Is that something your son has also???Best of luck to your family.Thank you so much for sharing :)
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Thanks so much for your comment! If you look on later posts --the most recent actually, you will see his issue with valgus!
ReplyDeleteMy 8 year old had surgery for the Valgus.They put in an 8 plate we just had it removed and boy does that make a difference.His leg is very straight!!!! I dont see the post on your sons valgus?!?
DeleteI found it wow he looks great!!Does Ethan have an absent fibula or part????
DeleteHe does have his left fibular --just a bit smaller and shorter than the right! I'm glad you found the post --I need to make my blog more user friendly!
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